You don't always need to install every optional update - that's why they're optional. WIth the optional updates be sure to understand what each update is for, especially driver updates. Generally with the optional driver updates it's best to not install them at all - unless and until you get problems.
I don't think it's an issue with the PC, I think it's a software issue, that's nothing to do with PCS, you're going to have to learn how to manage windows and drivers, there are often problematic windows updates that you have to troubleshoot as well as bugs in games and programs that you need to be able to workaround.
I had a I9900k + 2080 super PC before this from Cyberpower. Had it for approx 3 - 4 years. I had a hardrive fail on me and I replaced it and that all the issues I had. This has been constant out of the gate. Corrupt windows update from day 2 of the PC arriving. There were lots of issues regarding this while in processing also, which I won't detail here.
It's just software though, it's a windows issue, a clean install would be the quick resolve as we've already suggested.