DRAM light stuck on after pc random restart

[A_lex;]

I have accessed my pc remotely from my laptop in college today, i went on a lunch break and since then i haven't been able to connect to the computer. I have heard from family in my house that they heard beeps from the computer and now the DRAM light is stuck on and the system will not post. Usually the system runs fine with 1 ram stick but every time I connect my second stick it eventually stops working. XMP disabled runs perfectly fine but I have tried everything and can't get XMP to run smoothly without the system crashing or restarting. If there are any other troubleshooting methods I should do then please let me know and if there is nothing i can do i may have to just get a new motherboard.

PC SPECS:
CPU: Intel® Core™ i7 12-Core Processor i7-12700K (Up to 5.0GHz) 25MB Cache
Motherboard: ASUS® ROG STRIX Z790-A GAMING WIFI (LGA1700, DDR5, PCIe 5.0, Wi-Fi 6E)
GPU: 12GB GIGABYTE GEFORCE RTX 4070 AERO OC - WHITE - HDMI, DP, LHR
RAM: 32GB Corsair VENGEANCE RGB DDR5 5600MHz (2 x 16GB) - WHITE

 

[A_lex;]

Since this first post, I have been able to get a mate around to my house to take out one of the ram sticks, let it boot, shutdown again, put the 2nd stick of RAM in and it booted successfully. It seems this is the only solution to the problem when it occurs