I kinda had that issue, i wanted to turn my lights off. Did the update and it failed then went to a strobing light on the card and i couldnt turn off. They send out a manual update for it if you ask. That worked for me. And incase you are wondering why i would want lights off.....I have a 2 year...
They cant give you a true estimate as the amount of cards they get each week greatly changes high amounts or low. With the 3080 being labelled a preorder item it wont cone up on your stock shortage emails you would have had a single email about it already.
You have to remember though around 80% of orders were probably from release day or before and release day looks to almost be done. So may not take as long as you think.
Arrived guys. went to the wrong address though he delivered to one of my neighbors! Doesnt look pretty though xD. I went with the absolute no lights version of everything (hopefully) so the wee man doesnt get enticed.